3 signs she wants you sexually so you don't have to miss an opportunity with her. When we women are into you, we will touch you and in flirty ways. Watch the video to see what this looks like. The next way you can tell that she wants you sexually, is all of sudden she starts getting nervous around you. Something has flipped in her brain and her body. Now she wants you sexually, so her body language becomes more fidgety and her voice tone can even start rising. The third sign that she wants you sexually is she'll start throwing out sexual innuendos to hint that that is where her mind is. Perhaps she can't even admit it to herself, but these sexual innuendos get it out in the open that sex is where it's headed.