Gentlemen, this works in dating as well.
When I work with my clients we really go into depth about what it is that they want in a woman.
However there are 2 sides to that coin aren’t there?
What does your potential lady want?
Well let me tell you what she doesn’t want.
A slob. A disgusting guy who hasn’t showered. And someone who’s not going to embarrass her as she’s walking hand in hand with him.
Style. Fashion. Presentation.
All topics that cause men to be bored to tears.
But here’s the thing, you don’t think it matters, but she does.
Have you heard the expression you can win more flies with honey than vinegar?
The same holds true with dating.
While I’m not by any means calling us women flies, I am saying that your presentation is the honey to your dating life.
I’ve had clients that come to me with clothing that would scream “PLEASE IGNORE ME, I’M NOT IMPORTANT” and wonder why women ignored them and didn’t find them worth spending time with.
Because their advertising was all wrong.
You are your advertisement, before a woman will ever get to know you.
What if you had the option to go to a restaurant that was very clean on the outside, had a beautiful sign outside it’s parking and you could smell the food lingering in the air? How inclined would you be to eat there?
Now what if there was a restaurant right next to it, but instead of being as desirable, clean and pristine, it was swarming with flies and the only smell it had was that of a dumpster?
Highly unlikely you’d choose the latter.
The same goes with dating. You’re the restaurant so to speak.
If you’re smelly, and quite the sore on the eyes, chances are women are going to ignore you.
I’ve challenged my clients to step it up in the wardrobe department and guess what?
Those subtle changes changed everything for them.
Women who once ignored them, suddenly found them more desirable.
Approaching women wasn’ t as necessary as they found women approaching them.
The dates started pouring in!
You’d be shocked what a couple of changes to your wardrobe will do for your dating life.
Give it a try, I dare ya.
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