Have you ever listened to the song "Santa Baby"? I listened to it this morning whilst driving the streets of LA and while I listened to it I thought, "Man this lady wants a lot!"
Naturally I chuckled, but then I thought about the single guys I work with and realized that in some of your minds, you actually are convinced that every woman wants this.
While all the things she mentions are wonderful nice-to-have's, the truth is there is something that women want that you want as well.
I'm sure some of you are thinking "Hell I'd like to have some of the things she talks about in that song!" Lol wouldn't we all.
But I'll share something with you that's really going to help ease the burden of what you've been engrained to believe what women want.
It boils down to one small word, however that one small word carries significant meaning and weightiness with it.
Value. More than ever women are wanting to be known for their value. Being pretty isn't enough for us women anymore.
Sexy body, well while we appreciate your adoration, but it's not the end all be all.
No we want to feel known by you, we want to see that you really value us for who we truly are. The full package.
The men who have had a real value for me are the men I've been innately drawn to.
They got me, the saw my mind and valued what I had to offer.
They valued the journey I've been on and respected the courage and tenacity it's required to get me to where I am.
They valued my compassion and love for the people around me.
They valued my passion for my family and the adoration I have for my parents.
They valued that I'm a spiritual being thats connected to a Higher being.
While I'm listing out some pretty significant factors, I want you to understand that it's deeper than what you think.
When you take the time to value a woman and it goes beyond just being skin deep and then you'll have her eating out of your hands.
Guess what, the same goes for you. If you had a woman who really valued you and saw all than what meets the eye, she'd have you eating out of the palm of her hands as well.
Take the time to start noticing details in the peoples lives around you. When you do, acknowledge it but sharing your appreciation for them.
As you do, when you go out on your next date with the lucky lady, you grasping her value will come far more quickly and create a quicker more meaningful connection.