You know if you have to start your writing with a Disclaimer, it's going in the right direction.
So here it is. I have never screenshotted a picture of one of my personal dating text messages... until now.
This text message had me for one flabbergasted, impressed and then roaring laughing.
If only guys could get this they would...
have more dates then what they know what to with.
Unfortunately most do not.
One thing I'm constantly sharing with men is the power of persistence. Guys just give up way too easily these days and they wonder why the end up empty handed.
A woman says no and most guys typically will walk away like a dog with his tail between his legs. What's up with that? When did men start acting so wimpy?
Grant it, if their job was on the line or perhaps a potential raise, then they'd fight, persist and cause all hell to fall down to get what they want.
But with dating, a woman with two arms and a pair of boobs says no to them and it's as if the world has fallen apart and dooms day has come upon them.
So why do guys give up?
Lack of certainty of a desired outcome.
You see when it comes to work and fighting for that raise, you can be certain of two things. You'll get that raise or you won't. The end. It's not that complicated.
However when it comes to women, well it's not that easy. A + B= WILL NEVER EQUAL C.
So how do you translate that same type of confidence into your dating life?
You narrow down the plausibility outcome.
What do I mean?
You set a simple formula in place and you don't allow your entire acceptance and self worth hinge on what she says or doesn't say.
Here's a formula I want you to implement.
A (She rejects me) + B (I ask again) = I'm a man and had the guts to go after what I want!
A (She says yes) + B (I'm a great guy so she's in luck) = I'm a man and I had the guts to go after what I want!
No matter what she says, the outcome remains the same.
Oh did you think dating didn't require guts? (Insert CAPS LOL) HERE.
Are you kidding me? Of course dating requires guts. And don't get all butt hurt over this and whine to me about how easy it is for women and what a victim you are in dating.
It requires guts whether you bear ovaries or testicles.
Anytime you put yourself out there it will require guts and sometimes lots of guts before you get glory.
So back to this guys text message to me, read and learn: "IT'S OK. I DON'T GIVE UP EASILY. SEE YOU NEXT WEEK."
But wait a minute, I didn't say I was available next week?
Well played dear sir... well played.
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