A gentleman recently professed to me "Arica where do I even start with dating?"
While I had all of the right answers to give him as a Dating Coach, the real answer I wanted to give him was this, "Wherever you damn well want to start."
In this day and age I believe men as a whole have lost their voice. They don't know what a man is anymore and they're waiting around for someone to tell them.
Some have said it's the feminist movement that has crippled men.
Some have said that men no longer know their roles, thus perpetuating their confusion.
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We could all go for hours around and around trying to figure out what's gone wrong and why men having a hard time finding their way these days.
However that doesn't bring the answer. And it doesn't give men the direction their in dire need of.
Most men run to the line of questioning of "What's wrong with me?" And once they think they've figured out what's "wrong" with them, then the answers come forth and their transformation begins.
Horsecrap. Yah I said crap.
I'm not convinced telling yourself what's wrong with you is going to transform you into the powerful man that you are.
I think tapping into your greatness will.
You see when this man asked me where does he begin in dating, what I really heard was "Who am I and how do I find myself?"
A man that understands who he really is and discovers what he really wants won't have a hard time finding out where to start in dating.
He may however have a challenge choosing just one woman, because a man who truly values himself, has opened the pandora box of dating and finding a woman whom is his perfect suitor.