How attractive you are to her. If there’s chemistry. Can there be a real connection?
“Well heck Arica, how do I do that?”
I’m going to tell you what women find sexy in men, so get a pen and paper and write these down.
I’ll sum it up in these 3 words. Ambition. Goals. Adventure.
Google says Ambition is a strong desire to do or to achieve something, typically requiring determination and hard work.
When a woman sees this in a man, it is the ultimate turn on. Why do you think we want to show up to your sporting events? We want to see you go after that win!! (and the sweat..that helps.)
Simple things like sharing with us how you’re killing it at work and how you’re going to close that deal if it’s the last thing you do! Wow, now that’s muy caliente.
I live in Los Angeles and we have tons of start ups out here and I can’t tell you how inspired I am when I have friends and clients share with me their adventure of making a start up happen.
When a man is working towards something it shows a woman your strength, whether you realize it or not, your determination is a real turn on.
Maybe it goes back to the cave men days when a mans determination to kill the next bear, meant food for days.. surely that plays a role. Point is, when a woman hears how determined you are about a goal or a project, it’s intoxicating.
Which leads me to my next one.
Goals are very important to have. Goals insinuate that you’re going somewhere, you’re working towards something. You have the future in mind.
How does that correlate to us? We have the dream of building something with you. This is where your ambition speaks the loudest. Not only can we build something with you, but you’ll have the ambition to see it through.
Wow, what a man!
Complacency, being stagnant and idle isn’t sexy. But a man who is making moves and has a path he’s conquering, well it’s frankly irresistible.
Women, we love excitement. We love adventure. Why do you think fast cars appeal to us?
The sense of adventure gets our senses and mind running wild.
That’s why I recommend after a couple of dinner dates, that you do something adventurous!
Adventure whether it’s through pursuing a goal, being an avid skier, racing cars, planning daring trips, whatever it may be, shows a woman that she’ll never be bored with you.
It says you’ll keep her on her toes, that life will never be mundane and that you’re just the guy to show her the way to a life of adventure!
These are things she wants to know about you.
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