Single men dating... or NOT.
Whenever I'm talking about dating, a lot of my single men (yes they are all MINE), say "Arica if I could just go on a date that would be phenomenal."
So let me ask you, when's the last time you've been on a date?
For some men, it's been quite some time. And with the men who haven't dated in a while, I'll often hear them say "I don't have time for those games and bullsh*t."
Hmmm okay, so how is making out with your video games working for you?
I know, I know, low blow, but get your panties out of a wad and stay with me.
I get it, dating can definitely be a challenge, but here's the thing.. Loneliness sucks.
I'll tell you what else sucks, LA traffic. But guess what, every day I get out there and do it.
Why? Because I have beaches, canyons, mountains and phenomenal restaurants all within the grasps of my fingertips. So is the traffic annoying? Of course it is! But the rewards of what's on the other side of that traffic far outweigh the annoyance of traffic.
So it is with dating. Yes if you haven't had success with it, it can feel like a whole frustrating ordeal.
BUT... and I mean a huge BUT... like Nicki Minaj butt huge... The pay off is far worth all that you'll put into your dating life.
Be smart about it. If you suck in an area, don't keep banging your head against a wall. Change it up, implement some new strategies and then get out there and try again.
Giving up is not an option. Quit whining, put on your big boy pants, put the video game down and get yourself ready to meet that woman you deeply desire.