Real talk, wassup?

Boy can us ladies talk.

We can talk and talk and talk.

We can talk until we’re blue in the face.

We can talk about the same subject for hours upon hours.

We can talk about a topic from the top perspective, the bottom perspective and each side of the perspective.

Point is… we like to talk.

Men however, well you guys are a bit different.

Most men rarely talk about the things that bother them.

Sure you have your siblings, you have family, you have your mom, but do you really talk to them?

What about your friends?  Can you honestly share with them what’s going on in your life?  What’s bothering you?  What keeps you up at night?

Or do you keep it all in?  Do you go to be alone at night with your thoughts, never having someone else to share them with?

It’s not meant to be that way.

Yes you’re a man, yes you’re built differently, but at the end of the day, you’re a person with concerns, aspirations, deep thoughts, all which are to be shared with another human being.

The fact that you need to share and express those thoughts doesn’t make you less of a man.  It doesn’t make you over sensitive and it doesn’t make you a momma’s boy.

It just means you’re a person, a person who is meant to express himself.

I see it with a lot of men, very rarely do men have someone they can just talk to.

Many men live very isolated lives, surrounded by lots of people, however very isolated when it comes to the things that matter the most.

Do you have someone you talk to?

A guy friend you can go to that can say “Hey man, let’s have some real talk.  Wassup?”

Let me encourage you that needing to have someone to talk to doesn’t make you weak.

In fact, it’s one of the most important things you can do for yourself.

Yes it’s just as important as going to the gym, but more so.

Consider it as important as feeding yourself, supplying yourself with an ample amount of water and paying your rent.

Yes it’s that serious.  It’s that necessary.  And yes you should make more of an effort talking about the things that really matter to you.

Trust me, your perfect woman that will someday soon walk into your life will thank you for it.

She’ll be so grateful that she has the man that can openly express himself and talk about the things that wonder around in that mind of his daily.

She’ll feel like she’s the lucky one, the lucky girl who got the guy who has it all. 

That she’s found her male unicorn.

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