The other day I was talking to a dear friend of mine about men and dating. He works with a group of men and naturally in their conversations, dating was innately brought up.
Yes even you guys talk like us girls about the ins and out and ups and downs that come with dating.
He was sharing with me that one of the guys was discouraged with one of the girls he was pursuing. Okay the only girl he was pursuing.
He made his interests known, if I remember correctly, he even went as far as scheduling a coffee date. But then the ball was dropped.
He got really discouraged, the girl he was digging, wasn't digging him back and he was ready to give in.
That's when my brilliant friend gave some phenomenal advice that I'm going to share with you.
He said "Bro, you didn't finish the pursuit."
You see this guy was off to a great start, but that's just it, it was just a start.
He didn't finish the full cycle of pursuing her.
I find that the same with many of the men that come to me wanting to know what to do next or just flat out getting discouraged with the girl they're interested in.
Yah they make an effort to pursue, but the minute she doesn't show interest back or respond the way he had hoped, the guy is ready to give up.
You can't just start off flashy and then give up. You've got to finish it.
So if you're pursuing a woman, don't throw in the towel if you haven't finished the pursuit.