Are you needing love advice?
Join the crowd, so is every other person out there. Now doesn't just knowing that make you feel better?
Let's be honest, if love were so simple to figure out we wouldn't have thousands upon thousands of books about love.
There are over 130 millions books out there (at least thats what the internet told me, so you know its true), so can you imagine how many of them are written around love?
It's a topic thats important to us all, we're all seeking answers, so as a Dating/Relationship Coach I'm always finding more and more answers about this complex topic. You'd be surprised what I've discovered.
Experience can be the wisest of professors in matters of love, because let's face it, reading about love and actively participating with it are two entirely different things.
I still have marks on my heart from my wise professor Dr. Experience Love. So let's get right into it and get you your love advice.
One thing I found in my personal experiences with love taught me something that I will never forget and the marks remind me to never ever forget them.
In my past love relationships, I loved to get. And if I wasn't getting, all hell broke loose. What did I learn?
Two powerful things that if you can understand and grasp, they will change your life.
One: Loving yourself is the most powerful thing you can give yourself and your partner. You set yourself to love from a full tank. A full tank and an empty love tank will always set the precedence in your relationship. Yet it's something I see time and time again, whether from singles or those who are in relationships. Most are trying to love from an empty love tank and have a sense of entitlement that it's someone else's job to do it. FYI. It's your job!
The second is this: You may need a glass of water or a shot of tequila to take this one in. You can never force love. Ugh let me tell you, as a woman who really likes to make things happen, this is the one area where life has taught me that I CANNOT MAKE IT HAPPEN in matters of love. If the other is unwilling to love back, if the reciprocation process in neglected, you don't have much to work with.
Trust me if I had found a way to do so, I would share it with you. But if it worked it wouldn't be love.
These are two challenging concepts to grasp and not only grasp but apply. The application of it has cost me dearly, but the rewards of real, fulfilled love is so worth it.
There's no easy route and no easy roadmap, but it can be done. It must be done for you to enjoy the fullness of what love really is.