My future husband is screwed!! Sure I have a great personality that’ll keep him laughing and a compassionate side that will always reassure him, but when it comes to feeding the man, he is doomed to starvation! What do I mean? I don’t cook.
Can I, sort of. Will I, not at all. In all my existence I have yet to find the perfect person who has it all. Shocker I know, but to my knowledge they don’t exist. With that said I’ve come to terms that I will never be able to offer my husband absolutely everything he wants. (Don’t worry I put out this disclaimer on the first date.)
Now my lack of an ability to cook may sound funny, but you’d be surprised how many people will take their flaws and
make massive mountains out of them, determining that they will never find true love or someone to accept them as they are. What are your flaws? Think about them, what are the things that you consider your imperfections?
Have you ever struggled with your imperfections to the point that you felt like they disqualify you? After you felt disqualified how excited were you to go out and date? I’m going to say that you wanted to curl into a ball and kiss dating goodbye!
Too often we compare ourselves to everyone else and justify why it’s okay for them to be happy, while assuring ourselves of our imperfections and why it’s not okay for us to be in the game.
So my future husband may be screwed when it comes to having a wife who cannot cook, but I assure you that I have plenty more going for me that makes up for it. And I assure you that whatever your imperfections are, they are no reason to keep you imprisoned from meeting and experiencing fulfilled love.