So the other day I did a video for women about flirting http://www.aricaangelo.com/flirting-women/ to help us ladies out when we’re out meeting our next hopefuls, for the time beings or what have you’s. While having drinks with friends, one of the guys in the group told me that despite my forewarning to men to not watch this video, he indeed did. I asked him his thoughts on the video and his response… “It’s pretty much common sense?”
With that said I asked him “Well do you still find that women still go out acting like air headed idiots?” to which he said “all the time.” He then shared with me that when girls act stupid while attempting to come across as flirtatious that they do seem kind of hot… when he’s drunk! So I asked, “despite that this may seem like common sense to you guys, you’re telling me that as a guy you still find this all of the time (women acting stupid)?” Too which he agreed with a fat yes!
Ladies why is that? Why do women out there still find the need to act like foolish airheads when out speaking to guys? Okay so it may be entertaining for the first two minutes, but if you’re really out trying to meet someone ladies let me assure you, guys really aren’t’ digging it. While they may speak to you let me reiterate… no guy wants to bring the stupid girl home to meet momma!! Never ever ever. To his bedrooms yes, to mothers home for brunch, absolutely not!
Women despite how relaxed you may feel after having a few cocktails, slipping into giddy stupid girl is never hot enough to land you a real beau. While he may be slightly entertained, a serious interest in spending more time with you will never enter his mind. You have to decide what your goal is? If your goal is to primarily entertain guys and get the immediate gratification of having a 2 second interest, then continue on with this behavior. However if you’re truly looking for more, then it’s time to re-think how you present yourself. Be you, don’t be a clown who’s a source of everyone else’s entertainment. If you want a real man then you will have to act like a real lady.