Is dating difficult? Well it depends on who you ask. To some men and women out there, they’ll tell you it’s a breeze, that they thoroughly enjoy it and do it often. But then you ask others and they’ll tell you a completely story. They’ll say things like they feel as if no one good is left, the opposite sex are users and that they feel as if its one big complicated game. So who’s right?
They both are. Each has they’re own experience, one comes with joy, the other pain. Those who are in the pain camp look at those who claim to be having fun in dating and think they’re either lying or its all just one cruel joke. I’ve been on both sides of the coin and let me say that it’s much better to be on the enjoying side.
But since those guys have it all figured out, lets talk with the ones who find dating difficult. Do you
know that sometimes all it takes is a simple shift? Maybe just some hidden insight that you’re unaware of that can completely turn things around for you in your dating life. Just today I was sharing with someone about a client I had who was an absolute gem. The problem was the women he attracted were not diamonds and instead were massive takers.
As we dove more into his story I was able to help shed some light on some areas that were keeping him in sabotage mode and attracting women who would continually eat him alive. Months later I was happy to see him beaming and smiling from ear to ear as he had this gorgeous gal on his arm. He had found her, love finally made its way with the right woman.
She was loving, genuine and she deeply adored him. She knew that I was his coach, so we shared our appreciation for one another. There’s nothing more thrilling for me than to see a client who has found true love, the love that makes their face shine. It’s the greatest reward for a dating & relationship coach.
To see the two of them so happy made the work he and I had worked through worth all the effort. Why shouldn’t a guy like that find true love? Little did he know that with a little insight and doing the work, that the shift was made and what he wanted wasn’t just a fairytale, it was in the making waiting for the shift inside. It made my heart leap inside to know that I could do that for someone.
If dating is difficult for you, know that all it takes sometimes is a simple shift to set everything in the right motion for you!