Relationships are a lot of work, I mean duh, c'mon we all know that. But what about when our relationships become boring?
You know, you do the same damn thing every night. A little Netflix, a little dinner and then you're both off to bed.
Not near as exciting as the beginning of the relationship right?
No, not at all. But you don't mind it all that much because well hey, "this is life."
It's what you and your partner are making of life. You see your relationship is like anything in life, it's what you make of it.
A lot of times couples will say "It's not that we're having any major problems or anything, we've just gotten in a groove."
Sounds innocent enough, problem is, it isn't. You see when you said "I do", you weren't saying yes to a life of sitting and eating.
Chances are you signed up for deep meaningful connection, hot sex and someone you could laugh and smile with as you run at life together.
Instead you've settled for comfort. Comfort has it's place, but it's NOT the only place and definitely not where you want to stay parked.
Rather than piss your marriage down the drain with boredom and eventual... disdain.. spice it up.
Start off by having a conversation about the comfort you both are living in. Talk about ways that would resonate with the both of you, to create a sense of adventure, heartfelt connection and yes... hot sex.
The first part is addressing it, the second is acting on it. You owe it to yourself and your partner to bring that hot love and romance back in.
And when it starts to feel as boring as doing laundry... hit REPEAT.