The more I work and talk with single men all over the world, the more I discover that men really are simple creatures.
I've grown to appreciate mens simplicity and sometimes wish as a woman we could be as simple as men.
When I talk to most single men, I always ask what it is they really want. The answer is always very simple.
"Arica, I just want a good girl."
Geez, that doesn't sound like too much to ask for.
To me a good girl doesn't seem like such a hard person to find. In fact, when I think of a good girl, I picture someone like the girl in this picture.
She's sweet, she loves animals, she's kind and she will care.
Yet as simple as my single guys communicate this to me and as simple as I picture it, there are still millions of single men all over the world that can't seem to find that "good girl".
Why is that? Because simply just looking for a good girl isn't enough.
That's like me walking into Starbucks and saying I want a good cup of coffee.
Are you kidding me? There's 100 ways to create a good cup of coffee.
Dollface, you've got to get more specific than that.
Start off with figuring out what you don't want. (I bet that's easy for you.)
While guys don't get why we women make lists and it may seem to overcomplicate things, you do indeed need a list.
A good girl is way too generic. That's why most men get so disappointed when they date a girl and then realize that she's not "a good girl."
What does a good girl mean? What does she look like? How will she make you feel about yourself?
Quit wasting your single years walking blindly. Get clear about what that good girl looks like for you.