This weekend I’m shooting my first Dating Video Coaching for men who are too chicken to sign up for live, one on one coaching! That’s right, guys will get to hear all about dating from Arica Angelo herself. We’ll go over start to finish as to what the full Dating scenario looks like. I’ll even divulge secrets us women will never share, but that will keep you guys out of a lot of trouble!
With that said, my attention has been devoted to preparing for this and I’m sooo looking forward to it. While preparing my material, I spoke with a friend of mine about men who date to get sex. These are the ones that are referred to as “slime balls”, “slimy” and what have you by women everywhere. They’re the guys girlfriends help their friends watch out for.
These guys are on the prowl for bootycalls and while their only mission is to win for them, they end up ruining it for the good guys who are genuinely looking for a meaningful relationship. They prey on women who are open with their hearts, while the guy is hoping that she’s open in another areas. (You get what I’m saying.) These guys are skilled at what they do and they search for the most vulnerable prey. Typical Wedding Crashers.
The thing that sucks about these guys are once they’ve left a trail of broken hearts, it’s the good guys that come behind them to pick up the broken pieces. When the good guys find these women, their hearts are often shut down, they become suspicious and their hearts are very hidden. That’s when Mr. Good Guy has his work cut out for him.
Listen guys who go about this with the motto “I Date to Get”, I understand that you have needs. I’m sure you’re scarred with daddy issues, self esteem issues and addictions, that only serious therapy can repair. However your selfishness is doing the world no good, you’re idea of getting sex for sex while breaking hearts, is causing severe damage and consequences for that matter.
See a counselor, find a church, address the real issue, but whatever you decide to do, get out of your life of denial and lack of responsibility. The good guys are tired of cleaning your messes and us girlfriends of those who have been broken by you, have lives to live and things to accomplish. When our girlfriends are constantly needing our time and attention because of your asshole ways, our lives are put on hold as well. Their family members who have to comfort them would appreciate it as too.
Sign up for coaching with me http://www.aricaangelo.com/im-dating/ and leave your heart breaking ways. Quit running from your responsibility of being a man of integrity and value. Grow some balls and face what you’ve created. This habit and lifestyle will get you no where. Just like driving through a McDonalds drive thru and ordering a fattening cheeseburger will only temporarily satisfy you, while leaving you with a gut and gas, so will this lifestyle do the same.
Your instant gratification of “getting some” for the night will leave you with HIV, herpes and a lot of broken women who will have no problem spreading the word about your ways. Get some real hope and life into you and pursue something meaningful that will last. There’s so much more than just dating to get, you can find someone who is willing to share themselves with you for a lifetime.