How to use tension and create attraction in a way that's not gimmicky and cheesy, can be mastered in 7 ways.
#1 Unpredictability equips you as a man to spontaneously catch us off guard and allows us a woman to get to see you in different ways unexpectedly. (Listen to
the Trader Joe's story and implement this one for yourself!)
#2 Be 100% okay with your sexual attraction to her. Don't shame yourself and tell yourself what a creep you are. Own it and become okay with it.
#3 Don't sell yourself out. Telling yourself she doesn't want you is like shooting yourself in the foot. DON'T DO IT!
#4 Listen to my crazy "Everybody wants me" story from when I was a teenager at church camp. This really worked.
#5 Wine. I'm a big believer that we all need to relax a bit more and that most of us sabotage what we really want through our minds and talking ourselves out of ideal situations. Thankfully wine helps silence all of our inner saboteurs.
#6 Build rapport. Get to know her story and you'll get insight into her heart. Without knowing someone and building rapport, attraction won't last. So take the time and really get to know her.
#7 Go for it. You can watch my videos all day long, but if you're not actually going for it and implementing what you learn, then you allow yourself to become a know it all with zero experience. Don't do this to yourself.