These are typically the things I get asked about as dating coach, when men want to meet a woman...
...somewhere these guys have been told that if they "implement this" or "do that", they'll get the woman of their dreams. But does it really work?
One thing that I absolutely love about coaching men is that they are the go getters, they are the make it happen species and nothing is going to stop them. I quite admire this sort of attitude with all of my clients.
But when I get asked, "Okay Arica what do I do to get her to _______________" you fill in the blank, it makes my stomach turn and a minor headache appears.
Sometimes I want to remind men when they ask me questions with this sort of mentality in mind, that they're not about to attempt to train a puppy to not pee on a rug, but that they're pursuing a woman. A person. With a heart, mind, soul... and she just might have an amazing body, but ................slow down partner!
Listen, I get it, those techniques and what have you's definitely will help you get in the door.. but to keep you in the door is another matter.
Here's the thing, when it comes to us women and opening our hearts, nonetheless sharing our precious hearts.. it takes more than some 3 point step, backward/upside down method to really get in there.
But this is the beauty.
Great guys really want to get to know great women.
Which means "Hey girl, I want to get to know your heart."
I'm going to keep it real with you, which means I'm going to come out and be completely honest.
The guys I date and the guys I actually let into my heart are ENTIRELY DIFFERENT.
Now before I get into this... remember I'm a dating coach. So dating is fun for me.
I like exploring and dating all sorts of personalities. I like to give even the oddest of characters a chance and to me, dating is exploring people.
Something I find quite fascinating.
However when it comes to relationships and who gets access to my heart... well that.all.changes.
My dating circle which is quite broad, accepting of most men and pretty open to entertain most with great energy, generally narrows in to a small peep hole when I'm considering a relationship with them and granting access to my heart.
So what kind of guy do I let in my heart? and how do these guys get to my heart...?
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