Are you enjoying the single life? I have friends who are excellent at being single and then there are those friends of mine who are just awful at it. The friends who enjoy singleness, typically have very active schedules, are surrounded by great close friends and choose to participate with life as an adventure. The friends who hate the single life have a different approach.
The ones that hate it are going on dates that they find wasteful of their time, they feel like victims and they have a very strong push to hurry and meet the one. Sure they do great when they have the next date lined up, but once that date proves to be unsuccessful, they’re down in the dumps again waiting for the next rush!
We all want to be loved and by a very special someone at that. Sure self love is a great idea, but how much can one really love their self? Ummmmmm… a lot! However we’ll leave self love for another day. Waiting for that special someone while watching life pass us by is draining. Dating aimlessly is also draining.
Here’s the thing, we all have the power to say no and be selective. Just because you’re asked out on that date, doesn’t mean you have to say yes. So what if they say all the right things, if you find that they have negative energy and its exhausting, you have the power to say no. Don’t dive in so quickly because you need the next high to pick you up from your doom and gloom of being single. You can still be picky and remain true to your desires. Sometimes empowering ourselves by passing up on unwanted so called opportunities, can in itself be very empowering.
You also have the power to get up off your ass, remove yourself from the couch and television and get out their and enjoy life. Step outside and actually enjoy the air that you breathe. Take in the scenery. Go for a bike ride, go to the beach, whatever you do, just go! Quit waiting for a life that you dream of and take it by the balls and live it out now! Be productive, create something, get the good energy flowing through you again so that you can attract that awesome person you know is out there!
Quit wasting your single life away. Say no when it’s necessary and when the yes is in front of you, jump on it and enjoy the ride! Get your power back, the freedom to choose, to be, to live and to love. There’s really no excuse for being miserable in singleness, not when you’re afforded so many choices in this abundant life we’ve been given.
Now, I’ll ask you again, “Are you enjoying the single life?”
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