Recently I did a video guest spot with another dating coach where we talked to his private mens group about techniques men can use to meet women. As a woman I shared with them ways that I would prefer being approached and where I’ve seen men miss ample opportunity to approach women. We talked about the basics like grocery stores etc, and I shared with them where there were times I personally had given guys clues to show that I was interested and they simply dropped the ball.
Well it happened the other day, but this guy didn’t drop the ball. I was grocery shopping at Trader Joes and saw a guy that I found particularly attractive. I looked his way several times (ladies and gentleman theres your subtle hint…eye contact!) to give him the idea that I was interested. Moving my way back and forth between aisles, we found ourselves stuck in the same section. This is where he stepped up to the plate and used my own advice against me!!
I’m not sure if he’s a
member of my fellow dating coaches website, but the technique I shared this guy applied and to me for that matter. As the conversation opened, all resulting from a very simple technique, we began to share with one another our common interests and how we both loved living in the area we live in. So not only did this guy know how to approach me, but he now had me engaged in conversation. It was brilliant and there was such ease to it that it left very little room for awkwardness.
Towards the end of our conversation he did what I always tell men “You have go to do this….!!” He closed the deal. That’s right, he asked me for the phone number and I was happy to oblige. After he secured my number and I then shared with him that I was a Dating & Relationship Coach and thats when he freaked out! Lol but I assured him that his approach, style in conversation and how he got my phone number were all spot on!
So does dating advice work… apparently it did! Once again dating was made far easier using a simplified technique!