Has it ever occurred to you that you have a dating appetite?
That's right, in your dating life you have certain cravings that you're drawn to and you may not even realize it.
Think about your natural cravings for a second. Cheeseburgers, french fries, ice cream and for me, well it's coffee.
I'm on a juice cleanse right now, it's the 4th day and I reeeeeaaally want a coffee!!!!
What are those things that you feel like you can't do without?
Well guess what those same cravings that you go nuts over, whether it be cheeseburgers, pizza or even that glass of wine you've gotta have, they all
represent the same thing. They're those "shouters" that scream at you saying "I WANT, I WANT, I WANT!!"
So it is in your dating life. There are those certain people you crave, the relationships your drawn to.
Now I hate to rob the mystery and romance out of it, but it's very common that you're going to be drawn to people who reflect a lot of the current state of you and where you are in your life.
I know two guys that were single guys and they've both recently found their "women". The reflection? The women they selected are mirrors of them. Good or bad, it is what it is.
Now can you understand why I stress so much about self love? It's no bullshit.
If you don't understand that you have to love yourself and love yourself well, your setting yourself up to fulfill and satisfy a not so tasty relationship.
Many people don't get this and when I try to explain it to them, they think they're going to outsmart the advice and find their own fast path.
Hear me loud and clear, there is NO FAST PATH. If you don't understand that you have to love yourself well now, you are far more likely to attract someone who will mirror just how little or how much you lover yourself.
Understand what you crave in dating and make sure those cravings don't leave you with the same thing that overly greased cheeseburger leaves you with. Fat, sloppy, no energy and thinking "Why did I ever do that to myself?"