While having some evening cocktails, a friend of mine shared an expression with me which I never had heard of. We were discussing my website and he said “So do you have a market of “Chardonnay Bingers”? ”Pardon” I said in response as I had never heard the expression.
He said “You know those women who get at that certain point where they’re so negative about men, love and dating that they discuss their woes over Chardonnay and lots of it.” Hmm.. women who whine over wine, there’s a shocker. Not. It was quite hilarious and I told him I’d definitely be writing about this subject tomorrow while those around the table also got a chuckle out of this.
Of course he said that there was the other side of Chardonnay Bingers who were women who had made it in life and would spend their Chardonnay moments gloating over all of their accomplishments. I tend to pull more towards these types, while I myself can go through a good whining session, I’d much rather discuss my victories as opposed to my battle wounds.
So what about it ladies, which of the Chardonnay Bingers do we want to be? This Thursday I’ll be having wine with a girlfriend that will involve lots of girl talk which is always greatly appreciated. While our conversation will more than likely involve some of those heavier topics, I can guarantee you that men bashing, saying how sorry all of our ex’s have been and why love sucks, will not be on the agenda!
Really ladies, men bashing gets us no where, so rather than spilling your tears into your Chardonnay, why not splash it around as you exclaim and get excited about what a great future you can have? That Prince Charming may be strolling around the corner. Maybe you’ve had some duds in the past, but that’s the past and it doesn’t mean you have to make them your future! Cheers lady as we toast with those glasses filled with Chardonnay!
Men.. Here’s a warning, if you see women sitting around having a negative Chardonnay Binge, run for your dear life. They’re malicious and will devour you alive!!!!