Understanding women has been compared to the likes of rocket science and rightly so.
We're exquisite and intricate creatures that are meant to be discovered. Not ruled, not a science project and not your enemy.
When you start complicating the journey of finding a woman and thinking that understanding what women want is like achieving the one of Einstein's discoveries, you've already shot yourself in the foot.
KISS... Keep It Simple Sexy (No I'm not going to call you stupid.)
The other day I posted on Facebook a post that said "Take a lover who looks at you like maybe you are magic" ~Frida Kahlo. So if you want someone that looks at you like you're magic, how do you get that magic?
What is the magic wand that is waved that makes one magical?
I believe it's love.
If you're new to my site, one thing I'll be upfront about is that I'm a huge advocate of loving yourself and the people around you well.
First and foremost, you must learn to love yourself. And if you struggle with this, don't beat yourself over the head about it. Many do.
A gentleman recently professed to me "Arica where do I even start with dating?"
While I had all of the right answers to give him as a Dating Coach, the real answer I wanted to give him was this, "Wherever you damn well want to start."
In this day and age I believe men as a whole have lost their voice. They don't know what a man is anymore and they're waiting around for someone to tell them.
Some have said it's the feminist movement that has crippled men.
Some have said that men no longer know their roles, thus perpetuating their confusion.
When it comes to dating and love, most men I work with adhere to the methods approach.
What do I mean?
Men typically want some sort of system in place to get the girl, the woman of their dreams. Unfortunately us women just aren't wired that way, meaning it's not a robotic thing for us.
I've watched guys use systems and methods to get women, but I believe all those systems often lead single men into a lot frustration.
Hey let's talk about one of my not so favorite words.
Growing up in church people used to always say "Never pray for patience." It didn't take a lot of convincing for me to adhere to this tidbit of wisdom.
However in matters of love, I've come to realize that while I may hate the idea of patience, regardless of my feelings, patience is most certainly required in matters of dating and love.
If you're not killing it in the online dating world, let me assure you, you're not alone.
So what' the best online dating advice I can give you? Keep at it.
Lezzzz keep it real, online dating is not natural. I get it and so do you. But guess what, brushing your teeth isn't natural either, but you still do it and you do it consistently.
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