Most singles see the holiday as a threat.
As soon as you get home, you're going to hear "So why haven't you found someone yet?"
Lord knows the suffer a single has to endure just watching holiday movies alone, not to mention all of the couples wandering around cuddling and holding hands.
I mean yuck, were all the rooms at the Waldorf booked that they have to do this in public?
And what about all the engagement pictures? Well perhaps as a guy you're thinking instead of buying a diamond, you get to keep that money and buy all the booze you want.
But the holidays aren't as terrible as you'd imagine. Nope, the holidays actually work in your favor.
Because it's the perfect time to meet someone.
People's hearts are far more opened around the holiday season. We're reminded of family, love and what really matters.
With that being said, it's the time to not only connect back with yourself and what really matters to you, but it's also time to find another person with the same open heart.
And guess what? They're everywhere.
Instead of focusing on the negative of what you don't have, instead open yourself up to the possibility that this indeed is the perfect time to meet your special someone.
Keep your heart opened and be willing to let love show up.
When it does, be man enough to seize it.! Or her for that matter.