Communication, it’s a key component in all matters of life. Whether in the workplace, among friends and especially in relationships, understanding and properly communicating, can either make you or break you.
But since we talk about Dating, Love and Relationships here at AricaAngelo.com, we’ll discuss how Communication is imperative in the Love Department. Your ability to communicate can ensure that you have a healthy, productive relationship, however not being able to articulate your thoughts, feelings, emotions, can be detrimental.
I’ve seen too many times, a relationship end, all because the two could not find a way to effectively communicate with one another. They split, over analyze the situation and think that life just pooped on them. When in actuality, had the two sought counseling to assist them in conveying their emotions or found literature that would help them walk it through, the love that they had, could once be rekindled.
Really, with our accessibility to information, we really are without excuse. Have trouble with communicating, Google it! From there, you’ll find page after page, of all sorts of sources, that are ready and able, to guide your through. You just have to be willing to invest the time and energy.
Trust me, investing your time now, will save you a lot more time and energy then what you would experience, going through a break up or a divorce for that matter. Invest now, so that you don’t have a massive headache and heartache in the end.
Here’s the other thing that comes with communication, it takes vulnerability and commitment. You have to be willing and courageous enough, to open and expose that heart of yours. You have to be committed to see what it is that needs to be communicated, to be completed to its place of resolve.
Without these two huge components, despite how incredible you are at communication, if your heart and will is not invested, you might as well forget it. Despite how clever I think I am at communication, when I’ve communicated from a place where I’m disengaged from my heart, I find that it leads to a lot of hot air with no solution near in sight.
The three combined together, can take a relationship to fascinating places. It’s the vehicle to get your heart, what it truly desires. It takes persistence, don’t think this is something you can half ass do. No way. If you so choose to invest and make that commitment, know that it will take work. However, choose not to do it and you’ll find yourself spiraling in the same dilemma, time and time again.
Get resolve now and do it with communication that makes the both of you feel loved, valued and understood. So the next time you hear “What Did You Say?”, you’ll have no fear of being threatened, you’ll be equipped to fully express what you are trying to say and what heart posture you’re speaking out of.