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As a dating coach I get to hear all sorts of stories, witness peoples many different behaviors and see more then you can imagine.
Whether if its through coaching, bootcamps or the random messages I get through my Facebook, or emails things can get pretty interesting.
A couple of weekends I worked with another dating coach doing a bootcamp with other single men. The guys were really great and I developed a real fondness for each of them as we had our own one on one time.
However there was something that really bothered me and I couldn't shake it. Here were these great guys and I mean great guys that anyone woman would be lucky to have, but some of them shared a common dilemma.
Now before I share the dilemma that intrigued me I should tell you why these guys were at this bootcamp. I'm sure you're confused as I stated that they were all great guys that any woman would be lucky to have them. Well these guys were there because they wanted to move their dating lives forward.
You know unlike the people who whine and speculate about dating, no these guys went to the pro's and wanted to really position themselves to be in a place where they would "win" with dating. Rather then incur more battle wounds and continue dating blindly.
I couldn't have been more proud of these men, but I did have a challenge. We were working with some of their fears regarding approaching women. (Note to women: I work with women and men. But women when these guys approach us they really are risking a lot. So the least we can do is be pleasant and respectful. Check your bitchiness at the door.) When I encouraged them to move forward with certain gestures I kept getting a similar response.
Come back tomorrow and I'll share with you the question that intrigued me the most and honestly really got under my skin....
Are you ready to take control of your Dating?