Do you ever feel like you're a magnet for attracting the crappiest of people?
Despite how much everyone says that you're wonderful, incredible and just so amazing, the people you date are the complete opposite.
Why is that? Why do people who are those great, lovable ones find the ones we'd all like to rip off their heads... the pain in the butts.
Well there are many reasons, but for now I just want to focus on one. Before I talk about this, I want to put out a forewarning on this.
This is pretty heavy, so if it resonates with you, let me encourage you with this. You don't want to walk this out alone. Be sure to you work with someone or contact me at Coaching to help guide you through this.
Whenever we have a pattern of attracting the wrong people in our lives, one of the reasons is this obscure yet very real reason. We invite people in who will mirror how we truly feel about ourselves on the inside.
So if I feel like crap about myself, I typically will attract someone who will help solidify that in me. While you're lovable and a good person to everyone around you, you're not so good to yourself. Your self talk is very defeating and cruel. Truth be told, you would never treat the people around you as harshly as you treat yourself.
Thus why your family and friends can't understand why you keep dating people who are the complete opposite of you. Yes their the complete opposite to what you portray to your friends and family, however the person you're attracted to is a direct reflection in terms of how you see yourself through your own eyes.
The hard part is when it becomes a pattern, a comfort zone for us. That's why I'm holding a live call next Thursday to help show you "How to Get Out of Your Comfort Zone".
Listen as a dating & relationship coach, the #1 thing I do for my clients is to help them uncover what makes them valuable, what sets them apart from everyone else and to understand why who they are is imperative to stay true to in the dating world.
Beating yourself up inside is a no win situation for anyone. Walk away from that relationship and get connected back to who you really are, not the trash you think you see in you.